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Grandpop
My grandfather, just a teenager in the early 1900s, did
not set out for America by choice. Unlike many living in the poor
economy and slow growth of Italy during the early 20th
century, he came from a fairly well-to-do family. He also had both an
education and a trade, having recently completed his tailor
apprenticeship.
Italy was facing a time of extreme religious and
political unrest since Mussolini was beginning to promote fascism as the
answer to Papal dominancy. But a bit of a nonconformist, Grandpop was
totally against fascism. The problem was that he was in love with the
daughter of the fascist Duce (equivalent of a mayor) of his hometown of
Tollo. A bit of a renegade, Grandpop didn’t refrain from speaking out
against fascist principles, and he soon fell out of favor with the Duce,
who ordered him to leave Italy. With no other choice, Grandpop boarded a
ship, leaving behind his mother, father, and older sisters with their
husbands and children.
Undaunted, but quite alone on the ship for several
months, Grandpop befriended several older, wealthy men. Successful in
demonstrating his acumen, he convinced them to help him start a business
when they arrived in the U.S. They agreed, became both his mentors and
his financiers, and found him a place to live with a good Italian
family.
Grandpop and one of the daughters in the family took a
shine to each other, and they soon married and began a family. He worked
diligently to develop his fledgling business—Attilio Ciccotelli,
Tailor of Distinction—and soon became very successful. Never to
forget his heritage or his good fortune after such a challenging start,
he arranged and paid for all his sisters and their families to join him
in America.
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Obviously, my
grandfather didn't cook, but he often cut up his
figs and put them on the salad my grandmother made
for dinner. I tried to concoct a recipe that would
be worthy of the figs Grandpop picked from his
tree.
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3/4 cup walnuts, coarsely chopped |
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4 duck breasts, trimmed and scored |
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4 ounces pancetta sliced into thin strips |
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1/2
cup port |
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12
fresh figs quartered, stems removed |
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2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar |
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2 medium shallots, minced (about 3 tablespoons) |
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1/4
teaspoon salt |
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1/8
teaspoon ground black pepper |
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1/4
cup extra-virgin olive oil |
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1 small red onion finely sliced |
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1 large bunch arugula, washed, dried, stems trimmed, and
leaves torn into bite-size pieces (about 3 cups lightly
packed)
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1 small head curly endive (about 2 cups lightly packed) |
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1 small head escarole, washed, dried, and torn into
bite-size pieces (about 4 cups lightly packed) |
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4 ounces gorgonzola, crumbled (about 1 cup) |
Preheat oven to 400 degrees. In a small
nonstick pan over medium flame toast walnuts until they
are fragrant and lightly browned. Set aside to cool.
Sauté
pancetta in oven proof medium frying pan until fat is
rendered. Remove pancetta from the pan and set aside.
Pour off all but one or two tablespoons of the pancetta
fat. Season duck breasts liberally with salt and freshly
ground black pepper. Place fat side down into pan of
reserved pancetta fat.
Sauté over high heat for approx two minutes. Turn
breasts over and
sauté for another minute or until lightly
browned. Pour off any excess fat. Turn breasts back to
fat side down and place in oven for about four or five
minutes until cooked to desired doneness. While duck
breasts are in the oven, place port in a small pan and
bring to a boil over high heat until reduced by half.
Place the quartered figs into the saucepan and heat
until barely warmed through. Using a slotted spoon,
remove figs from the port and transfer to a clean plate,
reserving the port in the saucepan. Remove breasts from
the oven and allow to rest for a few minutes, keeping
them warm. Slice diagonally. Whisk the balsamic vinegar,
shallots, salt, pepper, and oil into the reduced port.
Place the sliced red onion, arugula, curly endive, and
escarole in a large bowl. Toss with the warm dressing.
Arrange the greens on a large or individual plates.
Place slices of duck on the greens. Sprinkle with the
crispy pancetta, gorgonzola, and walnuts. Serve
immediately. Serves four as a main course.

9.14.09
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Mother
My mother was not Italian. Neither was she Catholic. Nor did she live in
Parkside. Her mother was Pennsylvania Dutch and her father was an American
Indian from the Delaware Lenape tribe. Her family were tea-totalling
Baptists who lived in East Camden. Dad went to Camden High. She went to
Woodrow Wilson. They met through a mutual high school friend.
It's not hard to understand that Mother’s life before she married my father
could not have been more diametrically opposed to the life she led once she
became part of the Ciccotelli clan. An only child, and orphaned by the time
she was four, Mother was reared by an elder aunt and uncle. Unlike the
gregarious Ciccotellis, Auntie and Uncle were quiet folks. They went to
church regularly, spent quiet times together at home, and rarely
entertained. They did not smoke. They did not drink. They did not play
cards. Their Sundays were spent in pensive reflection. There was no
cooking. No cleaning. No mending. Instead, they read or strolled
around the neighborhood, window shopping or visiting neighbors or friends
from the church. A contrast in extremes, the serenity at Auntie’s house was
my mother’s haven from the raucous atmosphere at the Ciccotellis.
She dedicated her short life to my father and us children, spending most of
her time cooking, baking, knitting, and making a wonderful home. She was the
task-master of the family who kept us three girls towing the line. But she
always had open arms for our friends and would not hesitate, at a moment's
notice to ice a cake or make a pizza if we were having friends come to the
house. A warm hostess, she kept our home filled with close friends and
relatives, and there was nary a Sunday that our dinner table was not filled.
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This cake is a bit
time-consuming to make, but the result is well-worth
the effort. Using room-temperature ingredients will
yield a superior result. Refrain from peeking
in the oven, as this cake has a tendency to fall if
the oven door is opened too soon.
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4 eggs |
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1
cup butter |
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2
cups sugar |
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3
cups sifted flour |
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4
teaspoons baking powder |
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1/2 teaspoon salt |
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1
teaspoon vanilla |
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1
cup milk |
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Grease and flour a 10-inch tube pan. Separate the eggs and set
aside. Cream butter until light in color. Add the sugar and
continue creaming until fluffy. Add vanilla and blend
well. Sift the flour with baking powder and salt. While
beating on low speed, add the egg yolks one at a time,
beating well after each addition. Add flour and milk
alternately to the mixture. starting and ending with the
flour, mixing well with each addition. Set aside. With clean
beaters, beat egg whites until stiff but not dry. Fold egg
whites gently into batter. Pour gently into tube pan. Bake
350 degrees for about one hour or until tester inserted
one-inch from the tube comes out clean.
9.06.09
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Dad
My father was born in Philadelphia and moved to Camden in
1922, when he was four years old. The first in our family to obtain a
college degree, Dad was a fount of knowledge. He read encyclopedias for
pleasure. He could recite logarithms from memory. He could translate binary
in his head. He could talk in hex. He built us a television before most
people had even heard of the technology. He collaborated on the invention of
the diathermy machine. He was the first to buy IBM computing machines and
set up a processing center for his business.
He was the
apple of our eyes. A little more laid back in discipline, Dad was our refuge
when Mother was, as we used to say, on the warpath. Although he would
never go against her, he was always willing to offer each of us some words
of solace to get us through the storm.
Each of us
three girls had a special personal relationship with him. It is interesting
that, even though we were three sisters, each of us felt that he was our
father and ours alone. This couldn't have been more evident than in the fact
that each of us called him something different. He was Pop to my sister Lexy,
Daddy to my sister Anita, and Dad to me.
Dad's
wisdom and intellect
were unparalleled by anyone we knew, and he was the driving force behind our
scholarly ways. But, despite his intelligence, knowledge, and
education, he was a very down-to-earth person with an uncanny sense of
humor. Always the life of the party, he was one of the reasons people
flocked to our home.
We were lucky
to have him until he was 88, and though not a day went by that he didn't
have some opinion about what we were doing, he never lost his sense of
humor. As he lay in the hospital on the last day of his life, he said to my
sister, "You know, Lexy, right now I'd really rather be one of [Vice
President] Cheney's hunting buddies."
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Dad's Roasted Pepper and Olive Salad |
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This is a perfect
salad for end-of-the season peppers. Use any color peppers
you like, or use a variety for a beautiful
presentation. Choose a heat source with an open
flame, such as a gas stove burner or a grill.
Lacking either of those, you can use a broiler.
I prefer to leave the peppers uncovered
while they cool as they tend to get too soft. The
skins will still peel off easily and you will be
rewarded with silky sweet peppers with a soft smoky
flavor.
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6 large sweet bell peppers |
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1
cup black and green olives, chopped |
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2
tablespoons capers |
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1
peperoncini, thinly sliced |
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2
cloves garlic, minced |
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1
small onion, chopped |
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2
sprigs fresh oregano, chopped |
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5
sprigs fresh flat leaf Italian parsley, chopped |
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1
teaspoon freshly ground black pepper |
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1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil |
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1tablespoon
balsamic vinegar |
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2
tablespoons toasted pine nuts |
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Roast the peppers over an open flame or under a broiler
until the skin turns black.

Set aside to cool and then
scrape off skins and seeds. Slice lengthwise into strips.
Place in a bowl. Mix remaining ten ingredients and pour over
peppers. Top with pine nuts. Toss to blend ingredients,
cover and let stand at room temperature for several hours.
Do not refrigerate or the delicate, smoky flavor will be
destroyed.

Serve as part of an antipasto, a side dish, or topping
for your favorite sandwich.
8.30.09
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Uncle Batty
A devout Catholic, Uncle
Batty lived in South Camden with his mother and sister Iris. Iris never
married, and we thought he was a confirmed bachelor until one day he
introduced us to Alice. He was 37 and so in love. She was 22. "Could it
possibly work?" we all asked. Who could even try to guess? But it didn't
work, and Alice left him and for a younger man.
A real comedian, Uncle
Batty brought endless love and laughter to our home. I owe my love
for classic popular music to him. For it was he who brought his
collection of 40s 78 rpm records to our home, tutoring me on the band
leaders and vocalists of the time. He had an amazing tenor voice, and he
and I would listen to the records for hours at a time, singing to them
at the top of our lungs. Is it any wonder that, to this day, I still
remember all the words of almost every song?
Yes, he had some
misfortune, but despite his tribulations, he never faltered in his faith
and he remained a stalwart friend to my father for more than 70 years.
And how lucky was I to have him as a pseudo uncle for more than 50.
years! Who can boast that today?
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Uncle Batty's Seafood Stew |
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We love fresh-caught weakfish for this recipe,
but weakfish are hard to find in a market, so any
small bass or rockfish will do nicely instead. And, while
fillets can be used, pieces of whole fish, with skin
and bones intact, will produce a much more complex
flavor. Just be sure to use the freshest
weakfish you can find, handle it carefully, place it
in one layer in the pot, and cook it just until it
is opaque. While the delicateness of the
weakfish makes this a lighter-tasting stew, the fish
tends to break apart easily.
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1/4 cup olive oil |
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2
cloves garlic, chopped |
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1
large onion chopped |
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3
pounds fresh weakfish |
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2
pounds fresh tomatoes, peeled, seeded, and chopped |
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5
sprigs fresh flat leaf Italian parsley |
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1
large green pepper, chopped |
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5
large fresh basil leaves |
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3
sprigs fresh thyme |
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2
sprigs fresh oregano |
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1/2 teaspoon crushed pepper flakes |
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1
teaspoon freshly ground black pepper |
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2
cups dry white wine |
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1/2 pound small shrimp, peeled and deveined |
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12
littleneck clams |
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12
mussels |
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salt and freshly ground black pepper |
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1/3 cup roughly chopped flat leaf Italian parsley |
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Heat olive oil in a large Dutch oven.
Add garlic and onion and sauté
just until soft and translucent. Do not brown.
Add fish, skin side down, and sauté
for 2-3 minutes. Add tomatoes, peppers, parsley, basil, pepper
flakes, black pepper and white wine. Bring to a boil over
medium heat, then simmer over low heat for 10 minutes. Add shrimp and simmer
another
10 minutes until shrimp turn red and fish becomes opaque. Add clams and mussels and
simmer about 5 minutes until they open. Taste and adjust
seasonings. Top with parsley and serve immediately in warm soup bowls.

8.24.09
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Aunt Carrie
A real
flapper in the 20s, Aunt Carrie was the only relative I knew who
was divorced—a travesty in our Catholic family. Our family tried to keep
this all hush-hush, but it didn't work because Aunt Carrie didn’t care.
My
grandmother's younger sister, Aunt Carrie had thick black hair that
seemed to have been dyed with a dark blue tint and a well-endowed body
of which she was not at all self-conscious. She dressed to the nines,
never leaving the house without her heavy black mascara and bright red
lipstick. The party animal of the family, she loved to eat, to drink, to
dance. Always smiling or laughing, she was always game for a good time.
It never even surprised us to see her climb up on the piano in a bar and
sing a song. The memory of her tapping her foot on the piano makes me
smile still today:
I'm looking over a four leaf
clover That I overlooked before.
One leaf is sunshine The
second is rain Third is the roses that bloom in the lane.
No need explaining, the one
remaining is somebody I adore.
I'm looking over a four-leaf
clover that I overlooked before.
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Aunt Carrie's Steamed Mussels or Clams |
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with Garlic, Wine and
Fresh Herbs
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Be sure to cook more than a dozen mollusks for
each person
if you want to have leftovers. You can make a
quick pasta sauce by removing the leftover mollusks from
their shells and adding them, along with a little of
the remaining liquid, to GramMom's Crazy Gravy. Or
you could combine the leftover shellfish with chopped olives, roasted red peppers, fresh
garlic, lemon, and olive oil to make a topping for
toasted Italian bread. This would be delicious with
a glass of Pinot Grigio after a walk on the beach.
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4
dozen live mussels or clams |
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8
tablespoons olive oil |
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1
small onion, chopped fine |
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4 garlic cloves, minced |
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1/2 teaspoon crushed pepper flakes |
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1
teaspoon freshly ground black pepper |
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2
cups dry white wine |
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4
cups bottled clam juice |
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1/4 cup flat leaf Italian parsley, chopped |
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1/4 cup fresh basil, chopped |
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salt and freshly ground black pepper |
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Scrub shellfish and debeard mussels. Heat 4 tablespoons of
the olive oil in a large pot. Add onion and sauté
over medium high heat until onions are just translucent. Add
garlic and sauté
just until soft. Do not brown. Pour in wine and clam juice.
Add red pepper flakes and freshly ground black pepper.
Simmer for one to two minutes until mixtures begins to boil.
Add shellfish, cover pot, and steam just until the shellfish
open. Discard any that do not open. Remove shellfish and
place one dozen in each of four large warmed soup bowls. Add
remaining olive oil, chopped parsley, and chopped basil to
the liquid in the pot. Taste and adjust seasonings. Pour
sauce over mussels and serve with crusty Italian bread to
sop up the juices.

8.18.09
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GramMom
My father's mother, and my
namesake, Angela Pulcinelli came to the U.S. with her father, mother,
brothers, and sisters when she was 9. Her father, Papach to me, worked
building the railroad in South America until he had saved enough money
to bring his young family to America. Her mother, TuTu to me, stayed in
Abruzzi and cared for the children until her husband could send for her.
They settled in South
Philadelphia, and my grandmother became an accomplished seamstress. She
started her own business, one of the very few women to do so in those
early years of the 1900s. By the time she was 20, she was making
wedding gowns and funeral dresses for much of the society in
Philadelphia.
I have no idea how many years
of working in South America it took Papach to save enough money to go
back to Italy and arrange for his family to move to the U.S. But I know
that we all will be forever grateful for the sacrifices they made.
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GramMom's
Crazy Gravy |
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with Fresh
Tomatoes and Basil |
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Make this dish with the freshest, juiciest , most ripe tomatoes
and you will be rewarded with a sauce redolent with the
aromas of summer. If fresh tomatoes are not
available or in season, a good canned tomato such as the
San Marzano will produce a much better sauce than will a
hot-house tomato. And, since tomatoes lose their flavor
and become mealy when refrigerated, remember that you
should, to coin Chiquita Banana, "never put tomatoes in
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12 large fully
ripe tomatoes |
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4 tablespoons
extra virgin olive oil |
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4 cloves garlic,
chopped |
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30 large fresh
basil leaves |
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1/2 cup dry white
wine |
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salt and freshly
ground black pepper |
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1 pound pasta |
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Cover tomatoes
with boiling water for one to two minutes. Score an X on the
bottom of the tomato and peel off the skin. Remove seeds,
reserving as much pulp as possible. Chop tomato into
bite-sized pieces. Heat the olive oil in a deep skillet and
sauté
the garlic until it turns golden, being careful not to burn.
Add chopped tomatoes and cook on medium heat for about 5
minutes. Add wine, salt and pepper and cook for another
5 minutes. In the meantime, cook pasta in at least 6
quarts salted boiling water. Chop basil leaves and add to
tomatoes. Simmer for another minute or two. Adjust
seasonings. When pasta is al dente, drain, reserving some of
the cooking liquid. Add pasta to the tomato mixture, adding
a little of the reserved cooking liquor if necessary. Toss
and heat slightly to meld flavors. Garnish with fresh basil
and serve immediately topped with Pecorino Romano.

8.12.09
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